Bringing me a stout IS the 6th love language. Let's write Gary Chapman to let him know he missed one:) There's definitely so much more to the whole languages thing than what I've written in parts 1 and 2. I think of these parts as teaching people to add and subtract. You've already moved on to calculus! But you're so right--that we're not just responsible for speaking our partner's language to make them happy. We're also responsible for 'translating' their actions to know they're loving us even when they're not perfectly speaking our language. And you're also right that I meant to write about that a little bit in part 3, but it's cool that you're already raising this topic. That re-affirms to me that this needs to be written because you see, as I do, that some people miss that detail in the love languages thing. (Uh, did you just use the word mean instead of average? Speaking statistics is my 7th love language. And did you just make a professional wrestling reference about Mean Gene? 8th love language!:) And let's definitely not meet in the middle of the road. I tend to prefer being three-dimensional instead of flattened:)

I wonder...can you tell yet what your daughters' love languages are?