Guys: Sending This Text to Women You Date Causes Women to Lose Interest

The mindset behind this common, polite text leads to dead ends in dating. Here’s why, and what to text instead.

Lee Bidoski
Hello, Love
Published in
8 min readNov 16, 2023

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I’ve listened to men complain that women lose interest in them after only a few dates, for no clear reason. I’ve listened to women complain about what the men…

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Lee Bidoski
Hello, Love

I’m a psychology professor trying to understand and improve our lives. Relationships | Dating | Health | Careers | Sports | Law Enforcement | Military