Hello, Fezubia--That can't be easy. 28 years of having someone by your side. What turmoil...pain...upheaval...Thank you for being willing to listen to the side of people who may be in a different place than you are right now. Whatever you decide ends up being right for you...whether you end up deciding to never get married again (and sticking to that decision), or whether you end up in a wonderful, healthy relationship for many years without the marriage label, or whether down the road you do feel able/willing/happy to get married again...I think the right answer for you will come in time, but your willingness to explore and learn all sides of this topic is...a credit to you, and may be why you end up happier with whatever decision you make. My best to you in your post-divorce life...