Hello, Klara! Dan's teasing you about needing a snowblower:) But I understand what you mean. It's a feeling...so hard to explain to people who don't feel that way. I've seen a couple of readers say that women "shouldn't" feel this way. I had hoped to at least explain why some women feel this way, even if others don't agree that they should or shouldn't. But I like thinking that if you were stuck home alone, maybe us reading and chatting here makes us all feel a little less alone:)