Hello, Lawrence--I so like the clear categories you've set out. It seems to get messy when a person in one category ("men who don't want to marry") try to convince a person in another category ("women who want to marry") that their category is bad or wrong and try to make them join their category:) (Naturally it goes the other way: Men who want to marry trying to convince woman who doesn't to join him and so on...). I think you're right--everyone in every category can be successful in form of success they choose:)