Hello, Liam—

You’re in luck! Turns out, I myself have written some pieces that some women may find useful, including these:

https://medium.com/@leebidoski/how-to-motivate-men-to-help-with-housework-a32f5beea6b5

https://medium.com/@leebidoski/women-4-ways-to-train-men-to-help-out-more-at-home-c12f4e7999bb

https://medium.com/@leebidoski/11-advantages-to-dating-men-who-are-less-than-6-feet-tall-33b8714dd264

https://medium.com/@leebidoski/how-to-pick-good-men-in-online-dating-4d37b9bc2881

In other instances, I’ve written pieces that both men and women might benefit from reading, like these:

https://medium.com/@leebidoski/two-times-when-its-ok-to-make-the-person-you-love-unhappy-38a348a723b3

https://medium.com/@leebidoski/if-the-the-person-youre-dating-won-t-commit-to-long-term-plans-with-you-ask-these-questions-68cd4535e792

In other cases, I’ve written pieces that older people might benefit from:

https://medium.com/@leebidoski/relationship-tip-for-older-couples-forget-date-night-3cbf213c0dc1

I've also written pieces that parents might benefit from:

https://medium.com/@leebidoski/how-to-make-your-kid-more-mentally-tough-8c8d4ec4fefc

Not every piece is relevant to everybody. If I choose to pass some info on to men that might help them, I can only hope you—the reader—doesn’t somehow interpret that to mean I’m somehow ‘wrong’ for only making suggestions about what men might do to get their goals.

In this piece that I’ve written, I’ve learned about women experiencing this situation, and I realized that men may not be aware of this. If I share this info with men, perhaps they’d like to take action now that they have insight into a problem they may be having. Perhaps not, which is quite ok too.

I haven’t heard men expressing concern about the same things described in this piece which is why I didn’t try to make this gender-neutral. I wouldn’t want to falsely present this as a case that both men and women are struggling with since I don’t have evidence that men are commonly complaining about women doing this. Doesn’t mean women aren't doing the things I describe in this piece; just means that I believe I need to stick to writing only that which I can truthfully back up through observations and/or research, knowing that does have limitations, naturally.

I hope you understand, Liam, that everything I write isn’t going to be ‘for’ or ‘about’ everyone. It may be only applicable to some people, but my hope is that you, as a reader, has the generosity to interpret that as intended—the attempt to share info that some might feel is useful, knowing every piece can’t help every person.

Take care, Liam, and thank you for reading.

--Lee