I agree, Third Act. It’s quite reasonable to not disclose much or even any info on a first date. I’m not sure there’s a hard and fast “must tell by this date” rule, nor a “how much do you tell” rule, but I have experienced someone who after 3 months was completely closed-mouthed even that far along into dating, and, sure enough, it was an indicator that something was awry. Thank you for reading, Third Act. — Lee