I grew up on cheddar cheese. I had no idea there was any other kind! Then in college I was introduced to gouda and muenster--fancy. This year, I've gotten adventuresome: Pepper jack is the new cheddar for me. But dang...I just feel miserable for you. This woman was so...demanding and rigid in so many ways. It's fine, if that gets her what she wants. But she didn't have to be a douche and jerk you around. But maybe that's just it: WE have to make sure we don't let people treat us that way. Very well-written, Brett.