I have a friend who is a stay-at-home mom who used to be a military officer. She runs her home just as well as she used to run her squadron. The house is always clean, the domestic chores are always done, healthy food is always provided with very rare fast food trips, her 4 kids are all well-behaved with decent grades and participate in 1 sport each. She doesn't have maids nor rely on fast food or restaurants for meals and her husband has a modest income. And she often managed her household for months while her husband was deployed. So...I just believe in good household management. I just think that if a woman or man is in in the position of "household manager," they can be good at their jobs.