I see what you mean that it's written as though "If I didn't consider him date-able material then she have get my leftovers." What I was trying to get at is more like...I had a more narrow filter for whether a guy is a good, decent man. If he can get through that filter, then the secondary filters of 'is he flashy and glitzy' could be enacted. So if yes to the secondary filter, then that's her taste, if no then that's my taste. But since he didn't make it through my initial filter of decency perception...then he shouldn't be considered date-able by any of us...I've gotta think about how to make that more clear:)