I think that has the makings of a reality tv show--watching a couple come to an agreement on a pre-nup--or not:):):) Say YES to the pre-nup! :) But you're idea here is wonderful--coaching people on how to broach the topic successfully. I guess my initial thought is that if I want one and the person I'm contemplating marriage isn't up for it, that's already an indicator of incompatibility. Or is that too strict a standard for compatibility?