Now we just have to figure out how to put such lovely concepts into action:) I have thought that if I get married again, I want to make sure I have some die-hard, anti-divorce friends who are quick to remind me to work through things, who won't see that I'm upset when problems arise in the marriage and jump to "You should divorce his arse!" Having people remind us "Do the work. Figure it out. Try to fix it." may be one of the most useful things to have around should we ever dare to marry again:)