Oh--mine are same! My main one is physical touch secondary is words. (Maybe that's why I've felt so encouraged by you--you too give words of affirmation!) It's been quite bothersome when a guy mistakenly says that that his is physical touch. I'm happy thinking he'll be touchy feely like me. But then that's how he realized his is not physical touch after all--he doesn't like touchy feely. Sigh. It would definitely be easier to be with someone who has same language. Does your partner have same or different from you?