Oh! You are really onto something! I've never used Bumble, but...it does seem like guys must love the idea that the women come to them:) Something I've been thinking--and I feel almost blasphemous writing--is that guys have really benefitted from the 'feminist' movement. Now, it's easy (well, easier) for them to have sex without commitment, and they have more income because now it's acceptable for women to work so...win-win for men:)