Thank you, Jonathan! I suspect I'll be viewed as immature whether I ever get married or not, just because I'm optimistic--or immature--enough to believe we do get to have a happy ending (uh, relationship-wise, to be clear;). It seems like all the gun-shy fellas seem to find me in dating. I've learned so many of their stories, so I completely understand why they're gun-shy. I guess you could say I'm getting gun-shy about men who are gun-shy:):) But you know, I like cereal. It's easy to fix, tastes good, few dishes to wash, and I like to slurp the flavored milk out of the bowl after I've eaten the cereal. So if cereal ends up being my fate, it's not such a bad fate:) But...let's keep trying to make some lasagna!