This is pretty cool, Josie! I see that some people who feel and believe different from me seem to want to tell me that I SHOULD or SHOULDN'T feel or believe what I feel or believe. Yet you're saying, "We're different on what we're looking for, but let's hope that each other gets what each of us thinks is best for ourselves". I love that perspective and am rooting for you to get what you feel is in your best interest and let no one tell you different:)