When You’re Afraid to Lose the Person You Love, You Lose the Person You Love

You want so badly for a relationship to work, but somehow it blows up. Here’s why — and 4 steps to stop it.

Lee Bidoski
Hello, Love
Published in
10 min readApr 18, 2024

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Graffiti on a wall with the words “Why the constant fear” stencilled onto the wall
Photo by Simon Watkinson on Unsplash

I cried during my wedding.

Big, fat, snotty tears.

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Lee Bidoski
Hello, Love

I’m a psychology professor trying to understand and improve our lives. Relationships | Dating | Health | Careers | Sports | Law Enforcement | Military