Yeah, I'd feel sort of yucky doing the same stuff, like the sweet note thing or Coke(r) (the copyright indicating I'm referring to the liquid brand, not to the favorite nose candy of Miami residents) thing. The guy wouldn't know I'd already done it before, but I would so...nope.

But: Is it ok to give similar gifts? I mean, if a person I'm dating happens to like some of the same stuff as my ex-husband, would it be god-awful to get him, say, a similar Christmas gift?;):) If my ex-husband thought it was so great, no need to re-create the wheel, right?;)