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Divorced Men: 9 Reasons Women Are Hell-bent on Marrying You

It’s not to have your babies or take the other half of your retirement

7 min readJan 27, 2022

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9 Perks of Marriage You Can’t Get from Shacking Up or Long-term Relationships

Part 4: Reasons divorced people warn you to not get married

7 min readFeb 23, 2022

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11 Advantages to Dating Men Who Are Less Than 6 Feet Tall

Why women benefit from being with shorter men

7 min readApr 5, 2022

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Guys: Sending This Text to Women You Date Causes Women To Lose Interest

The mindset behind this common, polite text leads to dead ends in dating. Here’s why, and what to text instead.

8 min readNov 16, 2023

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The Pluses — and Minuses — Of Dating Older Men

Men in their 40s and 50s have a lot of stuff figured out, but there are drawbacks.

7 min readFeb 18, 2023

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Say Yes to the Dress — and the Pre-nup

How to ask for a pre-nup without upsetting your partner, and what to do if your partner won’t discuss a pre-nup

7 min readApr 24, 2024

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When You’re Afraid to Lose the Person You Love, You Lose the Person You Love

You want so badly for a relationship to work, but somehow it blows up. Here’s why — and 4 steps to stop it.

10 min readApr 18, 2024

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Good Men Do So Much, but Ungrateful Women Say “I Need More”

Why doesn’t she appreciate all that you do? Read here to understand what’s really going on.

12 min readFeb 29, 2024

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A Reason Good Women Dump and Divorce Good Men — and How to Prevent It

He’s a good man, so why is he struggling to make relationships stick?

10 min readFeb 22, 2024

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Why The Woman You’re Dating Is Getting Clingy and How to Stop It

She’ll stop fussing at you for not spending enough time with her. She’ll shoo you out the door and not mind that she’s not invited.

15 min readFeb 18, 2024

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Lee Bidoski

Lee Bidoski

1.95K Followers

I’m a psychology professor trying to understand and improve our lives. Relationships | Dating | Health | Careers | Sports | Law Enforcement | Military

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